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TESTIMONIALS

Voices of Transformation

from The Ultimate Self Club

These are the stories of people who made a decision to step into something different a space where growth is real, conversations go deeper, and connection actually means something. Inside The Ultimate Self Club, members are not just joining a community, they’re rediscovering themselves, forming meaningful relationships, and realising they don’t have to navigate their personal evolution alone. Each testimonial reflects a moment of clarity, courage, and change...
proof that when you surround yourself with the right people, everything begins to shift.

★★★★★

Lisa Dwyer

Epic Human

I resonate Remi . Thank you... Remi I needed to hear this . I’m not perfect nor have I pretended to be something I’m not. But emotional growth for everyone on the planet is pivotal for change. So happy to join this movement and give what I can from heart of being human . To me humanity seems to have lost connection (family, friends, community). The sight for basic care for ourselves and one another. Just one step of care kindness to ourselves and the acceptance of others collapses softens. I feel and love that it’s human to feel the ups downs. One step together as we are all human. Let’s do this together!

★★★★★

Barbara Sutton

Amazing Human


★★★★★

Gami Karunasena

Professional Coach

I've been part of Remi's Attachment Style work for about 6 months. I am aware of my thinking, feeling and behaviour so much more.. I feel Remi was a mirror for my blind spots.. Since then I feel like I'm a different person in my personal and professional relationships. Remi held space for my parts compassionately, yet challenged me in so many ways at the same time.. The Chose You group she created became a safe space for me to become vulnerable and communicate clearly. Remi stayed with us every step of the way, giving feedback on how we communicated, how we looked at problems and supported me to grow.. She held space for everyone of us in the group. No one who wanted to do the work and learn went ignored.. I'm grateful to Remi for her guidance, patience, love and compassion. She not only had great intentions when she started this, she also had so much impact in my personal life.. she is the secure role model I never had. Just being in her presence, watching how she presented her secure self itself was a blessing. I highly recommend the program to anyone who wants to see what secure attachment looks like (as it is so rare) and have healthy relationships.


★★★★★

Marc Weisner

Men's Coach

Being part of Remi’s attachment style training and community over the last six months has been life changing. I joined the training and group for three reasons: first, to love more of myself at a deeper level and feel even safer within myself; second, to explore whether it was possible to feel even closer to my soulmate of 30 years; and finally, to serve my clients at an even deeper level.

Being mentored, coached, and supported directly by Remi has been a true gift. Not only does she have the technical skills, but she also brings an extraordinary depth of knowledge, a profound understanding of human nature, and an ability to offer exactly what is needed for growth and healing. On top of that, she genuinely models secure attachment in a way that is rare and deeply powerful.

So often we are told to love ourselves, go within, know ourselves, and trust ourselves - but what about the parts of us that resist love, or are too scared to receive it? Very few people can genuinely model and guide others through that process. Remi can, does, and has.

This work shows how it is actually done: by being with ourselves, and learning to love the parts of us that need it most, including the parts that may be most afraid to receive that love.

The experience has exceeded my expectations in all three areas. I hold a quiet internal smile when I think about the ripple effects of this training flowing through our communities and out into the world.

★★★★★

Matt Wickens

Men's Coach

Being part of Remi’s training and community IS life changing. I joined the training and group for three reasons: first, to love more of myself at a deeper level and feel even safer within myself; second, to explore whether it was possible to feel even closer to my soulmate of 30 years; and finally, to serve my clients at an even deeper level.

Being mentored, coached, and supported directly by Remi has been a true gift. Not only does she have the technical skills, but she also brings an extraordinary depth of knowledge, a profound understanding of human nature, and an ability to offer exactly what is needed for growth and healing. On top of that, she genuinely models secure attachment in a way that is rare and deeply powerful.

So often we are told to love ourselves, go within, know ourselves, and trust ourselves - but what about the parts of us that resist love, or are too scared to receive it? Very few people can genuinely model and guide others through that process. Remi can, does, and has.

This work shows how it is actually done: by being with ourselves, and learning to love the parts of us that need it most, including the parts that may be most afraid to receive that love.

The experience has exceeded my expectations in all three areas. I hold a quiet internal smile when I think about the ripple effects of this training flowing through our communities and out into the world.

★★★★★

Rochelle von Berger

Legendary Human

"Remi’s group has genuinely changed me. I understand and express myself differently now both as I move through the world and in my relationships. Remi and the group have given me the space to be me, be seen as all of me, all my ‚stuff’ without judgement. I can see the patterns that developed to protect me and recognise they no longer need to run me. Remi creates a space that is genuine, unhurried, warm and all it takes a willingness to show up, be open and be present. This type of clarity and accountability is a rare form of love. I walked in searching for how I could keep holding everyone and everything else together. I’m leaving more connected to me and with a deep knowing I’ve got me and how so can be there for others without having to be everything to everyone. Thank you Remi for being so gentle with me most most vulnerable parts and holding the parts that needed to come together accountable for doing the work.Now I have this incredible world where it's my lifestyle right now. An income stream that’s in the six figures and I am so, so happy in everything I do.

Rochelle xxx

★★★★★

Karen Bradley

Empowerment Coach

I came into this group carrying a pattern I’d had since childhood, the belief that love had to be earned. That meant over-functioning, carrying others emotional load, and consistently overriding my own instincts to meet everyone else first. I knew the pattern existed. What I didn’t know was how much I’d already done to change it. This gives me the space to sit in discomfort without rushing to fix it. I learned to recognise where others capacity ends and where my responsibility stops. I can meet people where they are without putting myself out to do it. Connection does not equal love. And earned love is not love at all. These weren’t just concepts I understood intellectually, I felt them shift.The moment that showed me how far I’d come was being called out by Remi for defaulting to text rather than verbal repair. I received it cleanly, no defensiveness, no shame spiral, no over-apologising. Just: she’s right. That kind of direct, honest facilitation is rare. It’s also exactly what creates real change.I arrived not fully crediting how far along I already was in becoming earned secure. This group is the mirror that shows me. If you’re someone who has spent a lifetime earning your place in relationships, and you’re ready to stop, this is the work. And this is the space to do it.

★★★★★

Nina Baxter

Legendary Human and Coach

The last six months working with Remi inside the Choose You group is truly one of the biggest highlights of my training so far. This parts and attachment style work has given me a much deeper understanding of my own emotional capacity and how - not only I think, act and behave - but also those around me. It now makes sense why a number of my relationships never clicked . I’ll always be a WIP , and this course has projected forwards in so many ways. There have been chapters of my life I had buried very deeply and along with a number of patterns I’d noticed- had created a deep curiosity about what impact they were having on me - this is why I started this journey. Now I understand these impact points and can do the inner inclusive work to progress myself with much more confidence.

Remi, thank you from the bottom of my heart for your love, care, safety and the occasional nudge to reframe and try again. I’m so incredibly grateful to you for sharing this amazing work . I can see why you love doing this work and I’m looking forward to sharing it with my clients . I’ve loved being part of this group and finding “my band”. Thank you all for your vulnerability, shares and genuine care . You are all truly an amazing group of humans . I’m looking forward to these connections deepening over time.

Why Join The Ultimate Self Club?

There comes a point in personal & professional growth where you realise you can no longer go back to surface level conversations, environments that no longer align, or relationships that keep you playing small. The Ultimate Self Club was created for people who are actively evolving people seeking deeper connection, emotional healing, meaningful conversations, and a community that genuinely understands the journey of becoming more aligned with who they truly are.

A Community That Actually Gets You

Step into a space filled with emotionally aware, growth-driven people who value healing, honesty, spirituality, psychology, business, and meaningful conversations. No surface-level small talk. Just real connection with people who are committed to becoming their best selves.

Ongoing Access to Exclusive Events & Experiences

Your membership unlocks access to private Facebook and WhatsApp communities, live workshops, book clubs, mastermind sessions, mentoring walks, coffee catchups, weekly LIVE teachings, and upcoming members-only podcast content all designed to support your growth journey.

Personal Growth Without Doing
It Alone

Transformation can feel lonely when the people around you no longer align with who you’re becoming. The Ultimate Self Club gives you a supportive tribe that encourages your healing, celebrates your evolution, and walks alongside you as you continue becoming the person you were meant to be.

What You’ll Experience Inside The Club

The Ultimate Self Club is a global community designed to be more than just a membership.
It’s an ongoing experience of connection, healing, growth, and expansion. Through meaningful conversations, workshops, live sessions, events, and genuine relationships, you’ll find yourself surrounded by people who value emotional depth, personal development, spirituality, psychology, business growth, and becoming more fully themselves. ✨.

Connect with Like-Minded People

Meet emotionally intelligent, self-aware individuals who value authenticity, inner healing, deep conversations, and meaningful relationships. Build friendships and connections with people who truly understand the path you’re on.

Grow Through Real Conversations

Engage in powerful discussions around psychology, spirituality, philosophy, emotional healing, relationships, business, and personal growth through live workshops, masterminds, group discussions, and weekly LIVE sessions.

Become More You, Together

This is a space where you don’t need to hide parts of yourself to belong. Through shared experiences, support, and collective growth, you’ll feel more empowered to fully step into who you truly are.

COMING SOON

Upcoming Private Podcast Access

Coming soon... you will gain access to a private podcast dedicated to conversations around emotional

healing, psychology, spirituality, relationships, business, self-awareness, and navigating life more consciously.

Exclusive content created specifically for the community.

I Discovered my Love

The Ultimate Self Club is a place for people who are ready to stop repeating the same patterns and start creating a life that feels calmer, healthier and more deeply connected. Through our unique twelve-month Journey, you'll heal the relationship you have with yourself, develop the emotional skills that create secure relationships and discover what it truly means to live with confidence, authenticity and emotional freedom. If you're ready to stop simply understanding your patterns and start transforming them, welcome home.

KEY SPEAKER

Meet Your World-Leading

Speaker & Trainer

Remi Pearson

Founder of The Coaching Institute, international best-selling author & creator of Disruptive Leadership.

Remi Pearson founded the International Coaching Institute (then The Coaching Institute) in 2004 in the bedroom of her home… and today it's one of the world’s biggest coaching schools in the world; having trained over 12,000 coaches and reached millions of people across 98 countries and counting, winning multiple major Australian business awards along the way.

She created the first ever govt accredited Diploma of Life Coaching in Australia, and developed the Meta Dynamics™ Methodology and the Critical Alignment Model for coaching, the prominent evidence-based coaching model preferred by many coaches and leaders. Many of her books to date on coaching, business, leadership, and personal transformation have gone on to become international bestsellers; with her most recent ‘Ultimate You’ launching at the sold-out book signing at New York’s Barnes and Nobles bookstore during her 2019 World Tour.

Remi has a Master In Applied Positive Psychology, is an NLP trainer, and has studied Internal Family Systems, Attachment Theory, Emotion Focused Therapy, and Relational Life Therapy (current).

CLIENT TESTIMONIALS

Hear From Previous Training Attendees & Decide For Yourself If This is Right For You...

"I have just experienced the most amazing year of growth and transformation of my entire life, so far. International Coaching Institute is a place of the most fabulous community, the most incredible education, and absolutely next level support and encouragement. It is impossible to speak too highly of my experience with the amazing trainers and crew..."

MELISSA ORIEL, QUEENSLAND, AUSTRALIA
SOLO ENTREPRENEUR

"Amazing experience on the Foundations of Coaching training. I've learned so much already from the inspiring trainers and I can now see a path for me becoming a coach to help others. This is where I would send anyone who wants to get started with coaching!"

SHAUN CRAIG, DERRY, NORTHERN IRELAND
PROFESSIONAL COACH

"Once again so much more than what we signed up for was delivered. Yes, we learn incredible skills, and even more than that we witnessed phenomenal growth in 70+ humans from all around the world. Highly recommend this to anyone who wants to be among the best in the world."

KYLIE HANCOX, BRISBANE, AUSTRALIA
PROFESSIONAL COACH

"Remi has given huge value as usual in all trainings given by the institute. I am so grateful for being in this space and will continue my learning journey with her. I love the energy in the room and I can see how far I grow in this space through different trainings I've attended. I wish I joined 20 years ago..."

MY LAN HOANG, HO CHI MINH CITY, VIETNAM
SOLO ENTREPRENEUR

"WOW I did not think a Zoom training would be so engaging. So full of learning, networking and fulfilling connections, content and everything! I didn't want it to end, I'd rate this training more than 5 stars if I could. Highly recommend...

SAY YES!"

CHRYSTAL ASHBY, WESTERN AUSTRALIA,
SOLO ENTREPRENEUR

"The material is rich, presentation is unparalleled, support team in the office are amazing, and environment and culture that the leadership has created can't be any better, friendlier, and joyful. And the instructors are beautiful human beings, experts in their field and great educators."

ERSHAD GHAZNAVIAN, ALBERTA, CANADA
SOLO ENTREPRENEUR

"this has changed the trajectory of my life. It made me actualise dreams I never thought was possible for me. It is more than just an educational institution, it is a community and tribe that makes you feel heard, seen and empowered. The value they add through their trainings, facilitations, methodologies and frameworks is second to none! If you want to live your dreams, this is the first step towards that journey!"

MAHSA DELNAWAZ, NEW SOUTH WALES, AUSTRALIA
PROFESSIONAL COACH

"Each training I attend convinces me all over again that I could not have chosen a better community in which to pursue my personal growth. The value they give is out of this world. This is my tribe, my home, the place I want to be."

ULYNDA JAPAUL, LONDON, UK
SOLO ENTREPRENEUR

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